dhrizza

An uneducated, curious fool trying to understand what's really going on.

The internet connects us to every human being in the world. I made this to meet people like me.

Work in progress

Where I'm headed

Current world

In the Amazon rainforest to understand models of reality from nature.

The game I'm playing

If you're simplifying, I'm a traveler. The higher-level game is experimenting with ways to bring these worlds back to other people.

I'm trying long-form podcasts, code (this site is one attempt), and maybe shorter video. The space is saturated, so I'm still looking for a better angle. That's why I don't make much content yet.

The thing I keep noticing: a lot of people seem to be in the wrong world for them. I'd like to help them find the right one. Worst case, it's entertaining.

Projects

Things I'm building.

Open questions

  1. 01Why is there something rather than nothing?
  2. 02What's the most profound realization humanity has had?
  3. 03How does a human being know they're not deluding themselves? Where do the blind spots hide?
  4. 04What does following your intuition actually mean, and how do you know when to trust it?
  5. 05Is deep thinking a calling, or a symptom of being unhappy?
  6. 06What does a world outside self-help look like?
  7. 07Is there still meaningful work to be done in philosophy and psychology?
  8. 08What makes some people grow from a hard experience while others only carry it?
  9. 09How do the few people who work on what they genuinely want end up there?
  10. 10Can someone make money simply as a result of becoming more themselves?
  11. 11Does big action necessarily mean meaningful action?
  12. 12How should a person act while accepting they might be wrong about everything?
  13. 13Which experiments are reversible, and which ones cost more than time?
  14. 14What power structures keep a person trapped? Who's actually in control of a life?
  15. 15Which worlds are welcoming to outsiders and newcomers?
  16. 16What's the Florida of any given country? A useful question for understanding a culture.
  17. 17Who comes to mind when someone says "successful," and why that person?
  18. 18Is climbing the career ladder still the reliable path it used to be?
  19. 19Would you rather speak every language, or speak to animals?

What I'm committed to

Personal

I was conceived by a sperm donor, and I'm also a third culture kid.

If you're either of those things, I'd especially love to talk because it's rare.

A friend in every country

These are the countries I have a friend in so far. It'd be incredible to have a friend that lives in each country.

World map of countries where I have friends Sixteen countries are marked as places I have a friend: India, the United States, the Netherlands, Iraq, Norway, Pakistan, China, Brazil, the United Kingdom, Italy, Ecuador, Canada, Mexico, France, Spain and Australia. North Korea is marked separately as the country I am still hoping to hear from. Fiji Tanzania W. Sahara Canada United States of America Kazakhstan Uzbekistan Papua New Guinea Indonesia Argentina Chile Dem. Rep. Congo Somalia Kenya Sudan Chad Haiti Dominican Rep. Russia Bahamas Falkland Is. Norway Greenland Fr. S. Antarctic Lands Timor-Leste South Africa Lesotho Mexico Uruguay Brazil Bolivia Peru Colombia Panama Costa Rica Nicaragua Honduras El Salvador Guatemala Belize Venezuela Guyana Suriname France Ecuador Puerto Rico Jamaica Cuba Zimbabwe Botswana Namibia Senegal Mali Mauritania Benin Niger Nigeria Cameroon Togo Ghana Côte d'Ivoire Guinea Guinea-Bissau Liberia Sierra Leone Burkina Faso Central African Rep. Congo Gabon Eq. Guinea Zambia Malawi Mozambique eSwatini Angola Burundi Israel Lebanon Madagascar Palestine Gambia Tunisia Algeria Jordan United Arab Emirates Qatar Kuwait Iraq Oman Vanuatu Cambodia Thailand Laos Myanmar Vietnam North Korea South Korea Mongolia India Bangladesh Bhutan Nepal Pakistan Afghanistan Tajikistan Kyrgyzstan Turkmenistan Iran Syria Armenia Sweden Belarus Ukraine Poland Austria Hungary Moldova Romania Lithuania Latvia Estonia Germany Bulgaria Greece Turkey Albania Croatia Switzerland Luxembourg Belgium Netherlands Portugal Spain Ireland New Caledonia Solomon Is. New Zealand Australia Sri Lanka China Taiwan Italy Denmark United Kingdom Iceland Azerbaijan Georgia Philippines Malaysia Brunei Slovenia Finland Slovakia Czechia Eritrea Japan Paraguay Yemen Saudi Arabia N. Cyprus Cyprus Morocco Egypt Libya Ethiopia Djibouti Somaliland Uganda Rwanda Bosnia and Herz. Macedonia Serbia Montenegro Kosovo Trinidad and Tobago S. Sudan
a friend here still looking 16 / 195
If you're from North Korea, I especially want to talk. You're the hardest country on this map to reach, and the one I'd most like to hear from.

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